Three weeks ago I started reading and working with "the Magic". Maybe some of you know about it already or has heard about it's predecessor, "the Secret".
The Magic lies in being grateful. Grateful for all the things you have in life. And by being grateful for all that you have you'll open up to see new ways and possibilities and you'll get even more to be grateful for, and so on. A positive spiral.
Maybe you think as I did when I first read it, "well, how can me being grateful for things actually make any difference in my life?".
Or maybe you think you don't have anything to be grateful for?
I can tell you there are thousands of things in your daily life that you can be grateful for! Even if you have problems in your relations, have a hard time at work or are unemployed, if you are out of money and in debt, having health problems or whatever it might be, that you don't feel good about.
I promise you, if you start looking for the little things you actually have to be happy about, you'll find more and more things and opportunities will come up, that you might had overlooked otherwise.
For instance, just think about your body. You reading this means you have eyes that can read and take in what happens in the world around you, that's something to be grateful of! Your eyes keep seeing things for you all day long, working perfectly without you needing to think about it.
If you found this webpage you must have typed in the address or clicked your way here. That means you have hands that can do that. You have the coordination to type and click, and probably you don't have to think about it, it just happens! That's something to be grateful for, a pair of hands that do most of the things you want them to do, without you needing to think about it every time. And you can learn to do new things and get really agile if you practice! Amazing!
Another thing that keeps you going through every day is your heart. Have you ever thought about how wonderful and amazing your heart is? Beating about 60 times/min or faster all the time, all through your life. It just keeps going and you can run, jump, sleep, drive your car, laugh with friends and it'll just keep going, at the speed needed. Without you ever having to think about it. That's really something to be grateful for!
You see, we could go on for ever, just going through all the parts of the body would make a really long post. You get the idea, don't you? You start looking for the little things, and as you keep going you'll find more and more things to be grateful for.
Do the same thing with a relationship you feel is troublesome, or if you have money problems. Start being grateful for what you actually have, and your mind will open up for other things around you that is good. If you focus on the good things about a person, next time you'll meet them you'll have a more positive attitude and that will change how you interact in a positive way, which gives the relationship a chance of becoming better.
It's based on the law of attraction. You'll get more of what you surround your self with. If you feel frustrated or sad for the things that aren't working for you in your life, you'll attract more frustration and sadness.
If you focus on the parts of your life that are working and feel truly grateful for them, you'll see that more good things will come in your way.
Does it sound stupid or naive?
I thought so from the beginning, but decided to try it fully and put my heart into it. And I can tell you that the work has payed off! By focusing on the good things in my life I feel I'm becoming more positive as a person and small little things that makes my life a little easier happens every day. My relationships start to get better, when I'm focusing on the good parts of every person and feel grateful for having them in my life.
If I can do it, I'm sure anyone can do it, work their way to have more magic in their lives!
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